The Farce of Child Perspectives in Family Court: A Scathing Reality Check
where justice is meant to be blind and impartial, there exists a glaring hypocrisy that cannot be ignored. Despite the solemn duty to uphold the best interests of the child, judges and attorneys for the child (AFCs) continue to give undue weight to the supposed wishes and perspectives of children, even in cases tainted by severe parental alienation.
Let’s be brutally honest: in cases of parental alienation, the voices of children cannot be trusted. Manipulated, coerced, and terrorized into submission by the alienating parent, these children are anything but free to express their true desires. Yet, in a gross miscarriage of justice, their tainted testimonies are often treated as gospel truth by the very officials tasked with protecting their well-being.
But where is the logic in soliciting the opinions of children who have been systematically brainwashed and emotionally abused? Would we ask a child if they want to attend school or brush their teeth, simply because they express reluctance or fear? Of course not. Some decisions are non-negotiable, guided by the wisdom and foresight of adults who understand the long-term implications of their choices.
So why, then, do we persist in granting undue authority to the whims of alienated children in matters as critical as visitation and custody? The answer is simple: because fathers are forced to fight tooth and nail for their rights, while the system turns a blind eye to their struggles. If a father lacks the financial means or legal expertise to mount a formidable defense, he is condemned to the sidelines, relegated to the role of a mere spectator in his child’s life.
This systemic failure to recognize the insidious nature of parental alienation and its impact on children is nothing short of a travesty. It perpetuates a cycle of emotional abuse, robbing children of the opportunity to form meaningful relationships with both parents and perpetuating the cycle of dysfunction for generations to come.
It’s time for family court judges and AFCs to wake up to the harsh realities of parental alienation. It’s time to stop prioritizing the tainted testimonies of manipulated children and start advocating for their long-term well-being. It’s time to hold alienating parents accountable for their destructive behavior and ensure that every child has the opportunity to know the love and support of both parents.
I’m Randy Morano—a father, author, and staunch advocate for parental alienation awareness. My journey through the depths of parental alienation has transformed me into a passionate advocate, dedicated to shedding light on this overlooked form of emotional abuse.
As a survivor, I understand the profound impact of parental alienation firsthand. Through my writing and advocacy efforts, I aim to raise awareness, empower others, and provide support to families in need. Join me in the fight for change and hope.
